Hi! I’m Brian Gerald Murphy, an activist, author, and entrepreneur. I teach lessons in movement making through free daily dispatches and a premium letter. I’m the co-creator of Legalize Trans* and online strategies manager for GLSEN.
Toward the end of my employment at a television network years ago, I would whine to my then-roommate Matt Beams as I was about to go to sleep, “Ugghhhh. I have to get up for work tomorrow.”
“You don’t HAVE to do anything,” he would always remind me.
“YES I DO!” I inevitably would whine right back at him.
I didn’t HAVE to though. I could have called out sick. Or taken a personal day. Eventually, I would run out of time off. I could not go in anyway. They would either deduct my pay or, eventually, fire me. Still, I didn’t have to.
Every day, even when I was tired, even when I thought I didn’t want to, I would reshift my mindset: I choose to go to work today. I want to save my vacation time, I get paid well, I enjoy my co-workers, I love working in children’s television.
Later, I chose to go back to being an employee. Every day I choose to work for a national non-profit.
As I think about the things I want to accomplish this year, and today, I am practicing powerfully choosing. Choosing to lift weights every other day, choosing to wake-up at 7:00 am, choosing to Press Publish here every day. I try to take no decision for granted.
This effects my personal decisions and the ways I interact with the world.
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