Gay Relationship Advice | Dating, Monogamous, Open & Polyamorous

Open Relationship Myths

I’ve heard A LOT of misconceptions about open relationships. Here are some of the most common (and most frustrating).

Whether you want to open your relationship, are asking “Should I be in an open relationship?”, are dating someone in an open relationship or love someone who is… debunknig these myths will help you understand open and polyamorous relationships better (and maybe even consider if one might be right for you)

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How you’re ‘supposed’ to feel in a relationship

When you’re in a relationship, you get all sorts of messages about how you’re “supposed” to feel. But the truth is, we don’t always feel the way we’re “supposed” to feel. And that’s ok.

I explore and unpack a few relationship messages you might have heard, how those differ slightly depending on your relationship structure, and what to do if how you’re feeling runs against the grain.

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Good vs Bad Feelings

When you ask someone how they’re doing, more often than not you get some variation of “good,” “ok,” or “not so good” (aka bad). We’ve collapsed the whole range of human experience to “good,” “indifferent,” and “bad.” But is that helpful?

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Jealousy is a choice

Jealousy is a choice. That sickening, heart-stopping, hair-raising, kick-in-the-stomach flash of white hot emotion you feel? That might be an uncontrollable response but to stay jealous, to be jealous… that’s a choice. Don’t choose it.