Today I want to narrow in on one set of tools that my partner and I use every day to keep our relationship thriving. These are not only tools that I use in my own…
Gay Relationship Advice | Dating, Monogamous, Open & Polyamorous
What haven’t you said to your partner?
At this point, the importance of “talking about your feelings” is almost a cliche. We all know we should do it, it even sounds like good advice, but when it comes down to it? Talking…
How to fight well in a relationship
In your relationship, there are definitely going to be times when you bump into each other. I’m sure you’ve already experienced some of that bumping, right? That’s completely normal and to-be-expected. But how you do that bumping, how…
“Relationships Are Hard” is a lie!
I don’t know when it started, but the idea that romantic relationships are hard is a lie that needs to die. Now.
Monogamish
If you’d like to spice up your relationship by involving another person in some way, you are not alone. A 2011 study found that just over 40% of gay couples are something other than monogamous….
What to Look for in a boyfriend: Gay Edition
When you’re looking for a boyfriend, what do you look for? Tall? Scruffy? A strong jawline? Muscular? Or maybe a bear. Or a daddy. Or someone making six-figures. Or an activist. Or an artist. If…
An open relationship made me MORE secure & LESS jealous
Last week I responded to a viewer question whose boyfriend wanted to open up their relationship and that left him feeling like, “Why am I not enough?” Today I want to tackle the idea that…
Is a gay relationship coach right for you?
If you want to get in shape fast, you hire a fitness coach. If you wanna change careers, you might hire a career coach. And if you want a relationship, or you want to improve upon an existing one, you might hire a relationship coach. Here’s what that looks like.
The difference between feelings & facts
When it comes to feelings, we’re getting two seemingly conflicting messages: “Feelings are not facts” and “Your feelings are valid” So which one is it? “My partner doesn’t respect my feelings” is a complaint I…
What makes you desirable
Whether you’re dating or in a long-term relationship, how do you develop that spark that makes you irresistible?