In your relationship, there are definitely going to be times when you bump into each other. I’m sure you’ve already experienced some of that bumping, right? That’s completely normal and to-be-expected. But how you do that bumping, how…
Gay Relationship Advice | Dating, Monogamous, Open & Polyamorous
“Relationships Are Hard” is a lie!
I don’t know when it started, but the idea that romantic relationships are hard is a lie that needs to die. Now.
If you’d like to spice up your relationship by involving another person in some way, you are not alone. A 2011 study found that just over 40% of gay couples are something other than monogamous….
What to Look for in a boyfriend: Gay Edition
When you’re looking for a boyfriend, what do you look for? Tall? Scruffy? A strong jawline? Muscular? Or maybe a bear. Or a daddy. Or someone making six-figures. Or an activist. Or an artist. If…
An open relationship made me MORE secure & LESS jealous
Last week I responded to a viewer question whose boyfriend wanted to open up their relationship and that left him feeling like, “Why am I not enough?” Today I want to tackle the idea that…
Is a gay relationship coach right for you?
If you want to get in shape fast, you hire a fitness coach. If you wanna change careers, you might hire a career coach. And if you want a relationship, or you want to improve upon an existing one, you might hire a relationship coach. Here’s what that looks like.
The difference between feelings & facts
When it comes to feelings, we’re getting two seemingly conflicting messages: “Feelings are not facts” and “Your feelings are valid” So which one is it? “My partner doesn’t respect my feelings” is a complaint I…
What makes you desirable
Whether you’re dating or in a long-term relationship, how do you develop that spark that makes you irresistible?
Gay Dating During COVID-19
As you most certainly know, we are in the midst of a pandemic that hase changed everything about the way that we go about our day-to-day lives. Sex, dating and relationships are part of that…
Gay Dating Advice: Should You Send Nudes?
My answers usually: you do you, boo. While I stand by that, I want to dive into the whether, when, and the how of sending nudes.