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What promiscuity taught me about God’s love
I wrote this as part of Queer Theology’s 2015 Synchroblog on Sex & Bodies. Check out all the entries here. I learned about agape, God’s self-sacrificing love from a hookup. Actually, a few hookups. Actually,…
What Gay Porn Taught Me About Faith
It was easier to pretend that I was straight before I looked at gay porn. That’s when it all came crashing down. Before then, I could brush it off. I was just excited to make…
The first crush I never had
My parents tell a story, of my first crush. Natassia. She lived around the corner from us. In elementary school, my favorite subjects were math and science and I was good at them. Yet somehow,…
Fred Phelps is my hero
God hates fags. Fred Phelps and his Westboro Baptist Church turned “God hates fags” into a worldwide-recognized slogan. It is the epitome of homophobia in America. Fred Phelps is the quintessential anti-gay Christian. Fred Phelps…
Gay & attracted to women?
I had the inklings that I was attracted to other guys for a long time. Before I even had the words for it, probably. The first time I met one of my good friends in…
Five Awesome Things Straight People Can Do
It’s interesting, and perhaps fitting, that while my recent 8 Things I Don’t Need to Hear From Straight People article was making its way around my friend network and the internet in general, one particular…
Eight Things I Don’t Need to Hear From Straight People
Over the years, well-intentioned folks have said a whole host of things that are not helpful and are in fact damaging. If you are a well-intentioned straight person: thank you! I really truly appreciate your…